Dear Me: A Letter To My Twenty-Two-Year-Old Self

Dear Me at 22,

What did I tell you?!?! You got in and youve just spent the past 3 years having the time of your life in Scotland at drama school.

You have made friends that will last a lifetime and learnt skills you don’t even realise you have until you need to use them!

Understandably, you are now terrified. Moving to London is a really big step and it isnt always going to be easy.

You are going to live in a complete shit-hole (excuse my french) for 8 weeks. There will be zero privacy, there will be people smoking weed in the kitchen when you just want a bowl of cereal. There will be multiple languages under one roof, and, every time there is an Arsenal match, a strange man will rent out your front wall to sell hot dogs from. You do, however leave before you go mad.

You will lodge in a room in an elderly couple’s house. They will have strong opinions. They will tell you “there are two things we do not do in this house: Smoke and Fry” in reference to the stir fry you were making. You will end up eating microwaved sweet potatoes and cooking chicken breasts on a mini george foreman cooker in your bedroom to avoid the kitchen looking used and another onslaught of opinions. (though you lose half a stone because of it – ha!)

You will however have a great performing job that will make all of this so much better!

My wonderful friend David and I after our rental offer on our gorgeous old flat was accepted!

You will live in several other places, including the place where the shower never does stop leaking into the floorboards, but you have a concierge… back with mum and dad in Bristol for a bit (whilst trying to find a place from there….madness!)….and then the place that has the most gorgeous views over london you have ever seen.

You will live with some amazing people and you will learn some valuable life skills:

  • The “manager” you speak to when you call BT for the 100th time is a different person every time and definitely isnt a manager.
  • Sometimes, fuse boxes explode.
  • Equally, sometimes locks just stop working and you won’t be able to get in.
  • Finding a house in London is really hard (and you do not cope well with it!)
  • Tea will make pretty much everything feel better.
  • People will try to touch you up on the tube. Sometimes they will desists with a death-stare. Sometimes they will need asking “Can I help you?” assisted with a death-stare.
  • Ranting at your mum on the phone really does help – though I’m not sure how much she enjoys it….
Left to right top:
 The Songs of Dan and Laura Curtis at the Royal Albert Hall, Hot Mikado at the Landor Theatre, Music is Magic at the London Palladium (photo thanks to
Left to right bottom:
 Freak Show at the Actors Church and Singing at the Ivy!

You will also have some amazing jobs and some incredible experiences:

– You are going to get thrown on stage for a part you aren’t the understudy for with an hour’s notice and   you absolutely smash it! (not arrogance, just pride!)
– You are going to sing at the Royal Albert Hall and at the London Palladium.
– You are going to spend a lot of time in recording studios – some of which are glamorous, and some that smell a bit like feet.

One of the nicer studios I’ve worked in – recording some particularly big notes for RiZen the Musical!

– You will even dabble in modelling – which I know sounds like madness to you right now! (see my “Left At The Altar” post)
– You will do a play in an art gallery and sing in a tiny red dress sprawled on a grand piano! (see the photo at the top of this post!)
– You are going to sing at ‘The Ivy’ wearing a floor length red dress!

A shot from my first ever modelling shoot – a bridal shoot – this was the first dress of the day. 🙂

Take it one day at a time – it will get intimidating and scary, but you are going to have so much fun over the next few years so enjoy it! Oh, and when you have the urge to start a blog – do it – it’s bloody brilliant fun!

Have fun!

Rosie (aged 25)

The wonderful cast of “Duncton Wood” at the Union Theatre earlier this year.

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    July 19, 2015 at 2:03 pm

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    July 19, 2015 at 2:05 pm

    This is brilliant! So inspired to write one of these myself. Great post. xx

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    Samantha Brooks
    July 19, 2015 at 3:12 pm

    This is such a lovely idea.. I'm 23 and currently in that stage where I left uni a year ago and managed to finally get a job that I enjoy – which is great – but still don't really have a clue what I'm doing for the most part.. I''ll have to make a mental note for 25 year old me to put something like this together..

    You look lovely in your photos too!

    Small&Blonde ♥


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    July 22, 2015 at 2:25 pm

    This is a fantastic idea boo , I love the way you have worded everything and I am glad your life is going so well I don't really know you but KUDOS to you.

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    July 23, 2015 at 4:09 pm

    Great post. Love your advice "take it one day at a time". Brilliant.

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    Josie Male
    August 5, 2015 at 8:39 pm

    Oh my goodness I love this post! I'm also 22 and can definitely relate to all of this! The pictures are also amazing 🙂


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    Rosie Ladkin
    August 28, 2015 at 5:18 pm

    So glad you liked it! Please do let me know if you do write one – I'd love to read it! 🙂
    R xx

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    Rosie Ladkin
    August 28, 2015 at 5:20 pm

    Thank you! So glad you liked the post! It's all scary but to be honest, no-one knows what they are doing really – we are all just making it up as we go along! Ha!
    R xx

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    Rosie Ladkin
    August 28, 2015 at 5:21 pm

    Thanks! So glad you enjoyed the post!
    R xx

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    Rosie Ladkin
    August 28, 2015 at 5:22 pm

    It's how I live my life (or try to!) – I don't have a clue what is going to happen next – but do any of us, really?!
    Glad you liked it!
    R xx

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    Rosie Ladkin
    August 28, 2015 at 5:22 pm

    So glad you liked it!
    Eek 22 is fun! Enjoy it all!
    R xx

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